A while ago Cara posted about a way to manage money called
The Envelope Method. Here, you put the amount of cash you want to spend for a certain period of time inside an envelope, and if the envelope is empty it means you went over your budget—and you have to stop spending!
I was intrigued by the idea, but I didn't think it was quite right or me. I have trouble doing things that aren't "real"—I mean, when your envelope is empty, you're not actually out of cash. I knew I'd just wind up charging additional expenses to my debit card.
I'd almost forgotten about The Envelope Method until
I lost my wallet. Suddenly I had no cash, no credit or debit cards, no nothing. My mom visited me in the city to lend me some money until my bank could send me a new card, and for the week or so I remained cardless that was pretty much my envelope. And it was real.
Obviously, having only a set amount of cash had a huge impact on my spending. Could I buy new shoes? No. Treat the boyfriend to a nice dinner? No—unless you mean ramen. Could I even buy an individual soda bottle from a deli without feeling wasteful? No, no, no.
And yet, the world did not end. Even without spending as usual, I was still able to get by with pretty much the same quality of life. I realize this was only a temporary thing, and that not buying new shoes for a week is different from, say, a year—but the experience did make me rethink a lot of my spending habits.
In a way, I think the country as a whole has been put on a mandatory envelope method, which is why our savings rate is at its lowest since 1993. It's all well and good to say "I should start clipping coupons, blah blah blah," but people often don't make changes until they have to.
Have you ever been forced to cut your spending? Was it easier or harder than you thought?Image Source
Comments (7)
I've heard about this, but I don't think it's feasible if you do online bill paying or whatever.... is it? But yeah, I've had to do the same thing before when my debit card was stolen (and I didn't use checks back then).
And pardon my ignorance, but why could you not go into your own bank and just withdraw whatever money was needed? Maybe I'm missing something, but I don't understand the part where your mom had to lend you money. Whoops.
@Morningstarrising@xanga - There may have been a fraud warning or she may have shut down her account so that her debit card could not be used. This would limit her ability to withdraw as she also did not have photo ID to prove she is the account holder as her wallet was stolen.
We used this method once when I went to Memphis with my class. It's smart but sometimes unrealistic.
@ProudToBeAChristianFruitcake@xanga - Oh duh. *facepalm* Totally forgot that she didn't have her wallet so that means no id.
I've definitely been forced to cut my spending before, and it was actually a lot easier than I thought it was going to be. :p
Yes. harder.
I've heard about this. I think i'm already responsible enough